Emma Rees-Davies

Divorce Coach

"What's the bravest thing you've ever said?" asked the boy. "Help" said the horse.
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Hello, I’m Emma.

If you’re going through a divorce or breakup — whether you’re at the start, in the thick of it, or dealing with the aftermath — you might be feeling lost, hurt, or simply unsure what to do next.

I’ve been there myself, and I understand just how disorientating it can be. The emotional upheaval, the uncertainty, and the sheer overwhelm can make it hard to see a way forward.

That’s where I come in.

Drawing on my own experience, alongside my work as a trained coach and counsellor, I help people make sense of what’s happening and support them through the practical and emotional challenges that come with separation. My role isn’t to give legal or financial advice, but I do understand how those systems work — and how easily people can get swept up in conflict or confusion.

I’ll work with you to steady the ground beneath your feet, think clearly, and regain a sense of control. Whether you're trying to make a decision, struggling to cope day to day, or wondering how on earth you’ll rebuild — I’m here to help.

You can move forward. You can feel calm again. You can build something new.

If you’d like to have a chat, I offer a free 30-minute discovery call — no pressure, just a chance to talk things through and see if I’m the right fit for you.

(And if you don’t hear back from me, do check your junk or spam folder — emails sometimes hide there.)

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What is divorce and breakup Coaching?

What Is Divorce and Breakup Coaching?

Divorce coaching might be a new concept to some — but if you're facing the emotional and practical chaos of a breakup, it could be one of the most valuable steps you take.

My sessions are tailored to you — whether you’re right at the beginning, stuck somewhere in the middle, or trying to make sense of life after it’s all over. This isn’t one-size-fits-all advice; it’s support that meets you where you are.

In our sessions, I’ll help you:

  1. make sense of what’s happening
  2. manage overwhelming emotions
  3. think more clearly
  4. avoid getting dragged into unnecessary legal conflict
  5. and begin to rebuild a future you actually want

While I can’t wave a magic wand to make everything disappear, I can help you stop spinning your wheels, find some steadiness, and deal with the confusion, anger, fear or sadness that often shows up during a breakup.

As someone who’s both professionally trained and personally experienced divorce, I bring empathy, clarity and a calm, no-judgement space for you to work things through. I understand how emotional this can be — but I also know it’s possible to come through it with strength and direction.

The aim? To help you move forward with more confidence and less chaos — and to support you in finding the best possible outcome for you.

I have a Certificate in Counselling, I am an Accredited Divorce Coach and a member of EMCC.

I have experience in helping those with neurodiversity.

 

Accreditations

emmcc uk logo the international divorce coach center of excellence member Sarah davidson accredited logo divorce coach certificate

Testimonials

"I could not have got through this without you... Emma has been a rock throughout the process. I am neurodiverse and Emma understood my need for structure and clarity in dealing with laywers and financial advisors. Calm, organised and methodical, Emma helped me navigate the process and the emotions that go alongside. Thank you Emma, as you say, it is rubbish to go through but once out the otherside, life is truly beautiful". C, Sussex Jan 25

January 2025 - From Start to Finish

"You are excellent; kind and helpful, I can't thank you enough for seeing me this week. Thank you for your amazing help and insight."

December 2024, S

Thank you, Emma, this was so helpful and has given some cool headedness and perspective.

N, September 2024

Your calmness, perspective and understanding of my situation felt like being wrapped in a warm blanket. Thank you, thank you, thank you

M, October 2024

Emma has recently helped a friend of mine. They are different person today, more confident and able to face the divorce with a clear head and better understanding of their situation. Thank you for taking the time to see them

C, October 2024

The course has given me a much clearer indication of where I want to be and my next steps forward. Thank you Emma and Rebecca for such an insightful course

J, October 2024.

Thank you so much for your time, I find your candidness and considered words really refreshing and feel much better equipped to move forward post breakup.

March 2024, London, S

"I feel so thankful to have found you :) I know with your help I will be able to handle the Tsunami that is coming...".

March 2024, V, London

"Thank you so much for making time for me yesterday. It made me feel held and that felt very calming."

February 2024, V

"I feel like a weight has been lifted from shoulders and I am actually able to deal with the situation I am in."

January 2024, SISoSIG Course, A, Gloucester

"I booked the course on a whim and fairly last minute. It was a great decision. Thank you."

January 2024, SISoSIG Course. S, Kent

"Thank you soooo much Emma! I can't believe how much better I felt the rest of the day at work after speaking with you"

October 2023, C, Sussex

"Just wanted to say a massive 'thank you' to Emma Rees Davies Divorce Coach. She was incredibly kind, calm and patient and helped me enormously through this rather scary process. Always happy to listen (and crucially not judge), I have more than survived the process and am now getting on with life feeling confident and positive."

September 2023, L, Buckinghamshire

"Thank you for being a lighthouse in the darkness".

July 2023, C, London

A lovely friend of mine referred a friend of hers to me. After just one session this is what she said: ?I can?t explain how much you are helping L. Thank you so much. You have been incredible. I saw them again today and you are giving them so much strength from your knowledge. Thank you.

June 2023, L, Bristol
 

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